James Kent Law - LTD

The percentages of failed marriages in the United States is staggering.  Chances are you know someone that is separated or divorced.  If you don’t know someone personally you probably know someone that knows someone that is divorced.  Why is this so?  There are several reasons as to why most marriages fail.  This article discusses the top four reasons why most marriages fail.

1.  Communication – proper communication is the crux of any good relationship.  Only through good communication can we know how and what our partner is feeling.  Without open communication between two people we can’t possibly know what and to what extent something may be bothering someone.  If we can’t adequately communicate then the smallest of issues can develop into major events in a relationship leading us down a troubled path.  Proper communication is the start of resolving our problems.

2.  Financial concerns and difficulties – most couples will experience some degree of financial difficulties.  This could range from frivolous spending, accruing debt to not saving any money.  Unless you are wealthy expect that you will have financial difficulties at some point in your marriage.  It’s when these finanical burdens begin to overtake part of the relationship that the real trouble begins.  If a couple cannot come to an agreement as to how to handle their finances then tension is likely to develop.  The problems worsen as one tries to solve the crisis while the other only contributes to it.  This places a great deal of strain on the marriage.

3.  Marriage not based on love – many couples today get married for reasons other than love.  Some get married because they feel they have to due to pressure from family or friends.  Or they see all of there friends getting married so they feel they should too.  So they rush into a marriage prematurely.  Others get married because of premarital pregnancy.  Couples that are too young and inexperienced who think they are in love will often get married.  They may soon realize that they don’t truly love this person or they are not mature enough to handle the more difficult relationship problems that may arise in a marriage.

4.  Society – The value that society places on marriage is fading.  You can rush off to Las Vegas and get married on the spot regardless of your background.  You can live with someone and have children without ever getting married.  These options really devalue marriage.  

There are many reasons why most marriages fail.  Societies values don’t place as much emphasis on marriage so couples may no longer consider it a viable option.  If they do get married and troubles arise they are quicker to disregard the marriage without trying to make it work.  In this respect many marriages are doomed before they start.

Las Vegas is a notorious party destination for everyone from the girl next door to celebrities.  Any reason to check out the Las Vegas nightlife is a good reason, but have you heard of some of the newer parties out there?  The days of celebrating bachelorette party style just when a girlfriend of yours is getting married are gone!  Don’t let the guys have all the fun!  There are several great reasons to pack up the girls and head to the Vegas clubs, but here are a few of the top reasons:

1. The Good Old Bachelorette Party.  This one is a no brainer.  There is no better place to go and cut loss with the girls than Las Vegas.  The clubs, the men, the parties…There’s no reason to let the guys have all the fun.  There’s a Vegas nightlife out there for the girls too.

2. Divorce Party.  Have you seen all the celebrities having divorce parties?  Divorce doesn’t have to be a downer.  Use it as a reason to get out, celebrate, find new people to party with, come out of that shell!

3. Birthday Party.  Whether you are just turning 21, 31, 41, or 51 – celebrate!  There is nothing like Las Vegas nightlife to make you feel young again.  You can celebrate your birthday in style.  All you need to do is find the right club with the right party package for you.  There are a ton of clubs out there, but to really do it right, you have to find the club that is going to give you the best party environment and the best people to party with.

4. Holiday Party.  Have you seen Las Vegas on St. Patrick’s Day?  The party lasts for days!  How about New Year’s Eve?  You pick a holiday, and there are Vegas clubs ready to help you have a great time.  Start a new holiday tradition with the girls by coming to Vegas.

5. Weekend Away from Reality Party.  Ever want to just get away from work, family, or your boyfriend?  Escape to Vegas.  You and a few friends can instantly become spa regulars, club VIPs, pseudo celebrities…you name it, you got it.  Just think of that Vegas commercial where the women are in the bathroom switching wigs.  You can be anyone you want…Who’s going to know the difference?  Go crazy!

5.  Who Really Needs a Reason Party.  Seriously, do we really need to have a reason to come to a hot Las Vegas club?  Do we really need a reason to meet great guys, make friends, and have the time of our lives?  The answer is no.  You can make up any reason you want, or you can have no reason at all.  You can celebrate an event, promotion, graduation, etc.  Or, you can celebrate nothing at all!